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But by definition you can't like aspects of your own gender and be heterosexual. Its too misleading, it'll make people think you're attracted to masculine men too. You probably don't identify as bisexual either. The thing is, people can like homosexual things without being homosexual. Of course the real problem is the lack of a word for it, not that I really have one myself.Īlso yes, I realize you were probably just meming and I didn't need to give such an in depth response, but hey, here we are. So identifying as bisexual is misleading and a generally bad idea, thus people claim that liking traps isn't gay so as to not feel as if they have some complicated sexuality we don't have a word for.
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Identifying as bi will make people think you're attracted to all men, and not just feminine men, and very few people are interested in hearing a full in depth exploration of your sexuality. I think the root problem for people who argue liking traps as a man isn't gay and who have no problem with the idea of being gay itself (and aren't doing it for the meme) is that it places your sexuality in a really weird area. I say that as someone who is a male who likes traps but otherwise isn't attracted to men.
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On the other hand, if you're a man that is sexually attracted to traps despite knowing they have a penis, then yeah, hate to break it to you but you definitely aren't straight.
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If you feel the same way about traps then its completely straight. I'm not sexually attracted to masculine men, but I can still admit and appreciate when they're attractive despite that. You could also like them in a non-sexual fashion. Liking a man as a woman is literally the exact opposite of being gay. If you're a woman then its definitely not gay. Claiming otherwise is problematic, as not only does it implicitly enforce gender rules by saying men can't be feminine and straight, but it also pushes the stereotype that gay men are all feminine.Īs for whether liking them is gay. Crossdressing has nothing whatsoever to do with your sexuality, and you can do it regardless of what gender(s) you like. Well for one, traps are definitely not inherently gay. If everything else isn't feminine then they just aren't a trap in the first place. Not necessarily all of them, but many.Īlso your argument is pointless anyway. Even that's pretty debatable though, I'm sure some people would argue that just knowing its there is enough.īesides, you'll very often see amongst people who like traps the phrase "the dick makes it better", proving that people who like traps, rather than just being comfortable with them often do focus on the penis. I'd argue that someone who likes traps but is put off by the penis and would only have sex with them under the condition that they can't see it would get to continue honestly identifying as straight, but by definition they definitely aren't. The issue here is that, by definition, having sex with the same gender is gay. If they're aroused until they find out, and then that revelation kills the arousal then you've got a point. That only works if they don't want to fuck the trap, or they aren't aware that they have a penis.